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It would be a relief, she said, just to tell someone what it was really like.
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It was kind of overwhelming.
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He was funny and seemed nice. We seemed to be clicking, but then he asked for my cup size. I told him I was, like, probably around a C. And then he stopped talking to me. And … ugh.
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I think those weeks passed more slowly than any three weeks of my life. I was so nervous, so excited, so scared.
The whole thing made me feel sexually alive again. I was just … I was devastated. I felt so humiliated.
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And I just felt empty. I felt like maybe that was being too clingy. I felt awful.
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But trying to cheat and failing at it is pretty bad, too. Anyway, I was pretty depressed after that. I tried to distract myself with work. I got into a good graduate school, which helped a lot. At least someone wanted me!
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There was a moment where I thought about bringing up the idea of an open marriage to my husband, but something stopped me. I wanted to protect him from that.
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